It's Business
Sandra Hartle
1/21/2003

Building a business

Starting a new business is never easy, in fact it is much harder than working 8-5.  Most people start out thinking that they are going to make lots of money after doing a little work, when in fact the opposite is most likely going to be true.  

Business relationships are different from personal relationships, or at least they should be.  In business it is necessary to hold everyone accountable for the activities that they are responsible for, and being accountable means keeping a schedule and being on time.   Personal relations are seldom affected by someone not doing what they promise, however business relationships can be seriously affected by that same failure to perform. 

When people decide to form a business there are many things that they must consider and one is following through on those items that will be considered a legal and binding documentation of their agreement with others in any particular group.  Papers must be signed to be legal, without signatures on the paperwork there is no legal claim if someone does not follow through.   Contracts must be written and followed, outlining responsibilities and expectations clearly.  

Businesses do not function if there is not equal participation by all those involved.   If some members think that they are fully vested in a group, but are not willing to put in the hours to make the group work, then there is going to be some serious disagreements.  Equality means more than equal investment, it means equal time spent, equal devotion, and equal dedication.   If a business is any kind of partnership all partners must share a common vision. 

If a business is a sole proprietorship, then one individual can lead those they employ to follow the vision they have set for their business.  If they don't tow the mark, then they can be dismissed. 

If a business is a partnership both partners must share the same vision, and the same dedication.  For one to believe that the other will do all the work, and when the time comes share all the profits is what we currently call a day dream. 

Many marriages break up over such matters as well, because like a business a marriage is a partnership.  Both partners bring their personalities to the relationship, and in most cases whatever baggage they have from their past as well. 

Some people are organized and well disciplined in their life, and often such people succeed at whatever they set out to do.  Other's are undisciplined, disorganized and inclined to make excuses for what they failed to do, instead of performing.  They are in general those who make up 90% of the American work force.  

When you are employed by a company, you will often be required to sign an employment contract.   This is especially true if you are working for commissions rather than a pay check.  In any business where there are commissions involved, you may find that you work for long hours and in some cases many weeks before you even see your first paycheck.  But if you are consistent, and treat your employment as an opportunity to set your own wages, and earn what you think you are worth, then you will succeed.  

If you are more inclined to let everyday life get in your way, you are doomed to failure.   Everyone has problems in their life.   Some have cars that are continually breaking down, others have children who have the delightful ability to toss a well planned day into total chaos because they failed to inform you they have a fitting for their sports uniform, or some other activity that was not scheduled into your plans.   This is life, and it should not in anyway become an excuse for failing to follow through if your dream is to be self employed. 

Working from home has it's own distractions.  Friends drop bye to see you, children need attention, you want to get that last load of cloths folded before you start working and suddenly you are exhausted.   And another day goes bye without getting to the job of building your business. 

If you are a business owner, and an employee does not show up for a month or more, having called in saying, I need a couple of weeks.   Would that employee still be working for you?  I think not.  So why is it that in business some people feel that being a partner means that they can disappear for a month or more, without contact and all will be okay when they suddenly reappear? 

I have had this happen with Real Estate agents I hired to work in my office, they come in work for a month or so, make a single sale.   When they get their first check instead of doubling up on their work, using the money to make their business grow, they take a month off and make a down payment on a new car, that they haven't a clue how they are going to pay for, since they haven't seen the inside of the office in weeks. 

I have seen it with the online business venture as well, they start out for a few days writing advertising (which quickly gets pushed out of sight without attention), and then they kick back for a month and wonder why there are not tons of checks rolling in as promised by the group they joined.   The only thing that comes free in this life, may be the rewards of a lottery ticket, but it certainly is not the way to build a business.

Hanging on when it is over

Some people refuse to take responsibility for their own behavior.  They simply think that what they did was more than enough and if the others involved don't like it, tough.  When things go bad they start complaining, and making excuses.  They don't want to do what it takes to make a good sound business but they don't want to let go either. 

In fact in most cases if someone is forced to look at the way they haven't performed they turn around and make it the other person's fault.  They complain to everyone - everywhere, and when they have finally worn out their welcome because of their whining once again they don't understand why.   And they often stretch the truth of what happened.  In some cases they outright lie.   This is known as slander and there have been some very large settlements paid for this behavior over the years.   

When people go about the business of talking about others, without having the facts, if they are called on it they had better be able to produce the proof.  

Business is a very touchy thing, and should always be taken very seriously.  If you enter into a business and make commitments to perform certain activities, it is always a good idea to follow through.  Some people realizing they will not be able to follow through simply resign, other's will insist that they have every right to continue, despite their lack of effort.  Some won't pay their way, or do the work, and after a two month absence will think they should be welcomed back with open arms.  This is delusional at best, and very naive.  

So if you are inclined to mix friendship with business, make sure that you are really willing to lose your friendships.  Because if he or she is serious and you are not, you will surely lose both.  Take your money and go to the horse races, your chances of succeeding are higher than if you expect someone to carry you along.   

Sandra Hartle
Email: sandrahartle@juntosociety.com

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